Monday, January 30, 2006

The "So-Called Perfect Partner" List

My "librarian by day, superhero by night" friend,
Amy tagged me! She worded her list so well that is it going to be a tough act to follow :) It is my first tag - does that mean I now have official blogging friends? Hehehehe! This "meme" is about the perfect mate.

Here are the rules: The tagged victim lists 8 different points of their perfect lover/partner, mentioning the sex of said partner. Tag 8 victims to join this game & leave a comment on a post letting them know they've been tagged. If tagged before, no need to contribute.

So here we go, AL's "So-Called Perfect Partner":

1. Sense of Humor - This is a must . . . laughter keeps the heart happy and healthy!

2.Athletic Build & Competitive Nature- I don't do scrawny men and prefer someone to be several inches taller than me (5'7'') and at least 50 plus pounds over me. I am not a small woman and want a man that makes me feel feminine (maybe petite on a good day - not!). Plus, I am a very competitive person and want someone that understands this obsession. It does not bother me that they may want to compete with me - I will always win! ;)

3. Intelligence - I want someone that I can have a good conversation with and feel that I have to be on my A-Game to be in their presence, even though it could become tiresome and frustrating! It would inspire me to learn more.

4. Honesty - Even though this may be hard at times. I want the truth - what is on his mind? Do I really look bad in this outfit? Is there something stuck in my teeth? The truth may hurt (sometimes), but I appreciated it.

5. Handy Man - I grew-up with a man that could do it all (in my opinion), whether it be on the house or a car. I want to know that if I need something done that it can and will be done by my man in a timely fashion.

6. Patience & Understanding - There are definitely times when I don't make sense and take a long time to get to a point. Be patient, I will talk it out and make sense in the end!

7. Self-Confidence - I want someone that has a presence when they walk into the room and have a magnetic aura that makes people want to hang out with them. Plus, I don't want to have to compliment him all the time to boost an ego.

8. Unconditional Love - He loves me for me and that will never change. Even if I change, he will find things about me to love me even more. This type of love can stand the test of time and any challenges we face.

And here are the 8 other tagging victims:
Stewbie2
Nik
Becky - Seattle
Becky - Texas
Momma of 2
MomyBlogR
Marel
HazelHazel

"I used to think of all the billions of people in the world, and of all those people, how was I going to meet the right ones? The right ones to be my friends, the right one to be my husband. Now I just believe you meet the people you're supposed to meet." - Diane Frolov and Andrew Schneider, Northern Exposure, The Quest, 1995

7 comments:

amy said...

Love the list! (And the quote at the end, too!) You're official now that you've been tagged for your first meme! Congrats! :)

momma of 2 said...

Great list!

Okay...I'll let you know when I get it done!

momyblogR said...

Great list....I think anyone could love that guy, lol!

OK Chica, I'm in but give me a little time to fashion this amazing man!

:)

FunkyB said...

I remember my single days (the second time around) and my list. I was determined NOT to screw up again, so I made a top ten and stuck to it.

Stick to yours -- they are all good and necessary qualities!

Hazel Hazel said...

Awesome list. I will get to mine soon. Promise!

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